英语小短文第 26 课：Working smarter, not working harder 更明智工作，而不要更卖命工作

One of the biggest causes of unresolved anger between people is a lack of understanding. 引起人们之间的不解之恨的最大原因之一就是缺少对彼此的理解。

Men and women have different strengths and weaknesses, different ways of expressing ourselves, 男人和女人之间有着不同的优点与缺点，不同的表达自我的方式，

and different "childhood wounds" that we're trying to heal. 以及不同的需要我们极力去愈合的童年创伤。

While it may seem like we're from different planets we are actually very much alike when it comes to our need and desire for love and intimacy. 可能看起来我们就像来自不同的星球，然而事实上，当谈到对爱情和亲密关系的需要和渴望时，

We only behave differently in our quests for closeness. 我们又是何其的相似。我们只是在追求亲密的时候表现出了不同的方式。

Stop doing what you think is "fair" or "right" and start doing what works! 停止去做你认为公平或正确的事，而去着手完成有效的事！

It's not about "working harder", it's about "working smarter". 这不是关于更卖命地工作，而是关于更明智地工作的问题。