If you can't remove the stress, remove yourself. 如果你们不能转移压力,那就让自己远离压力。
Slip away once in a while for some private time. 适当离开一段时间,为自己找个私人空间。
These quiet moments may give you a fresh perspective on your problems. 这些安静的时刻也许能够使你对问题产生新的看法,
Avoid stressful people. 避开给你产生压力的人。
For example, if you don't get along with your father-in-law but you don't want to make an issue of it, 例如,如果你和你岳父相处不融洽,但你又不想让这成为大问题,
invite other in-laws at the same time you invite him. 那么在邀请他时也邀请其他的姻亲,
Having other people around will absorb some of the pressure you would normally feel. 有其他的人在身边会消减一些你平常所感觉到的压力。