You're just trying to relate. 你只是想套近乎.
Stop trying to buddy up to me. 别想亲近我. I don't want to hear any sweet-talk. 我不要听任何甜言蜜语 I hate it when someone tries to butter me up! 我最讨厌人家奉承我! I dislike flattery. 我讨厌诌媚.
You don't have to wine and dine your higher-ups. 你犯不着用酒肉来奉承上司. Don't patronize me. Nobody eats that shit. 别想拍我的马屁, 没人会吃你那一套.