Step outside yourself and see what's going on. 撇开你个人的立场, 来看清楚到底是怎么回事?
Be smart! 放聪明点儿! Wise up. 要放聪明些.
Figure it out. 要衡量事理.
Think. 多思考. Use your common sense. 运用你的常识作判断.
Don't get too personal. 不要变得太主观.
