Commenter phantuanduong in Vietnam wrote: 越南的评论者phantuanduong 写到：
We as parents and teachers should let children understand that they will be punished if they do wrong, and the punishments won't be only reminders or warnings. 我们作为父母和老师应该让孩子明白，如果他们做错了事就会受到惩罚，并且这个惩罚不只是提醒和警告而已。
But not everyone agreed. 但是不是所有的人都认同。
Denysenko in Ukraine says what we call bullying is a part of the socialization process: 乌克兰的Denysenko说我们所说的欺凌行为是社会化进程的一部分：
Children need to know how to defend oneself, how to establish relationships in a group. 孩子需要知道的是怎样保护自己和建立起与群体的关系。
If laws or teachers or police will protect a child against "bullying," he or she will never become an independent person. 如果法律或者老师和警察去保护这些遭受到欺凌行为的孩子，那么他们就永远也无法变成一个独立的个体。
